Mr Ibu did not do well. The situation playing out in his family has become a painful reminder that polygamy has done more harm than good – Actress Rita Edochie

Actress Rita Edochie states that the messy property feud over late actor Mr. Ibu’s properties highlights the severe damage polygamy inflicts on families.

Edochie spoke out following a public clash between the actor’s widow, Stella Maris, and his other children—including those from previous relationships and children he fathered out of wedlock during his marriage. The actress argued that these complex family dynamics prove polygamy causes more harm than good.

Posting via her Instagram page, Rita who is vehemently against Polygamy, wrote

”I DO NOT WANT TO BE NUMBERED…

 

HERE IS HER MAIN REASON

👇POLYGAMY HAS DONE MORE HARM THAN GOOD, NOT JUST IN NIGERIA BUT IN AFRICA AS A WHOLE 👌.

 

WE MUST CALL A SPADE A SPADE .

LATE MR IBU DID NOT DO WELL AT ALL !!!!!!!!

 

NO MATTER HOW WE TRY TO SUGARCOAT POLYGAMY OR PAINT IT AS A CULTURAL SUCCESS STORY , IT STILL DOES NOT CHANGE THE FACT THAT IT HAS BEEN ONE OF THE GREATEST MARITAL ERRORS THAT HAS JEOPARDIZED THE PEACE , UNITY , AND HARMONY OF COUNTLESS FAMILIES .

 

EVERY SINGLE DAY , I KEEP SEEING MORE REASONS TO DETEST AND DESPISE POLYGAMY . IT IS NOT SOMETHING , I WOULD EVER WISH ON MY WORST ENEMY . TIME AND AGAIN , LIFE KEEPS PRESENTING FRESH EVIDENCE THAT WHERE POLYGAMY EXISTS , PEACE IS CONSTANTLY UNDER THREAT , WHILE DIVISION PATIENTLY WAITS FOR ITS OPPORTUNITY .

 

POLYGAMY HAS BEEN DEFENDED FOR GENERATIONS , YET THE PAINFUL OUTCOMES CONTINUE TO REPEAT THEMSELVES RIVALRY , JEALOUSY , UNHEALTHY COMPETITION , BITTERNESS , DIVIDED LOYALTIES , INHERITANCE DISPUTES , AND PROLONGED FAMILY CONFLICTS HAVE BECOME FAMILIAR STORIES IN MANY POLYGAMOUS HOMES .

THE PAINFUL ASPECT OF IT COMES WHEN THE PROUD POLIGAMST IS GONE TO THE OTHER SIDE .

SADLY .

 

THE SITUATION CURRENTLY PLAYING OUT IN MR IBU’S FAMILY HAS BECOME ANOTHER PAINFUL REMINDER OF HOW DIFFICULT SUCH FAMILY STRUCTURES CAN BECOME . THE PUBLIC DISAGREEMENTS AMONG MEMBERS OF HIS FAMILY OVER PROPERTY AND OTHER ISSUES ARE HEARTBREAKING TO WATCH . WHILE EVERY FAMILY HAS ITS OWN UNIQUE CIRCUMSTANCES , THIS SHOULD SERVE AS A SERIOUS WARNING TO THOSE WHO ARE CURRENTLY IN POLYGAMOUS HOMES OR ARE PLANNING TO BUILD ONE TOMORROW .

 

IF CARE IS NOT TAKEN , TODAY’S CRISIS IN ANOTHER MAN’S FAMILY CAN EASILY BECOME TOMORROW’S REALITY IN YOURS .

IN SOME CASES , IT MAY EVEN BE WORSE . THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO NEED TO SUGARCOAT THIS REALITY .

 

MARRIAGE WAS DESIGNED TO BE A UNION BUILT ON LOVE , COMMITMENT , TRUST , SACRIFICE , AND MUTUAL UNDERSTANDING .

EVEN MONOGAMY , INVOLVING JUST ONE MAN AND ONE WIFE , IS CHALLENGING ENOUGH TO SUSTAIN IN TODAY’S WORLD .

IF MAINTAINING PEACE BETWEEN TWO PEOPLE REQUIRES PATIENCE , FORGIVENESS , AND CONSTANT EFFORT , HOW MUCH MORE DIFFICULT DOES IT BECOME WHEN MULTIPLE SPOUSES A