Married and divorced women refer to marriage as war as they share when their marriages ended

A number of divorced women and even some married ones have referred to marriage as war and themselves as “soliders” wounded in battle.. 
One woman who got married in 2013 and was divorced in 2021 began the conversation by sharing her story. 
She wrote: “Married 2013 – Returned 2021. My return soldiers when did you return from war?” 
She added that the comments are hilarious and wrote: “Well better a returned alive but wounded soldier than returned in a coffin soldier. God loves D!vorced people.” 
Divorced women took to the comments to share their stories, likening their marriage to a war zone and themselves as soldiers who were lucky to return alive. 

They shared how they went in whole and came out bruised.
Some who have been divorced twice also shared their stories. 
Some who are still married and want to leave but don’t know how to also commented. 
See below.