‎"I want my wife submissive but I don’t want a daughter like that" Man reveals what he expects of his wife and how he’s raising his daughter to be the opposite of that

‎A man has sparked a conversation on social media after revealing the kind of wife he wants and the kind of daughter he wants to send out into the world.
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‎The man stated that he wants an obedient, humble, and submissive wife who never questions him,  but doesn’t want his daughter to be like that.
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‎He said he is raising his daughter to be hard-headed and a menace before sending her out into the world.
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‎He wrote: ‘The wife I marry and the daughters I raise are two entirely different people with two entirely different personalities.

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‎’I would not want a daughter like my wife.

‎’And I would not want a wife like my daughter.

‎’I want my wife humble, obedient, VERY submissive, soft-spoken, comforting, and non-confrontational.

‎’The kind of woman I call on the phone and say,

‎’“Mammie.”
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‎’“Yes, baby.”
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‎’“Where are you?”
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‎’“I’m home, baby.”
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‎’“Okay. Please go out to the gate.”
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‎’And she doesn’t ask,

‎’“Is there a problem?”
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‎’“Is somebody at the gate?”
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‎’“Are you coming back home?”
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‎’“What am I supposed to do?”
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‎’She just goes out to the damn gate.

‎’But here’s the irony.

‎’I don’t want to have a daughter like that.

‎’I want my daughter to be hard-headed, opinionated, confrontational, self-sufficient bee+ch.

‎’A complete menace to any useless man who crosses her path.

‎’I want the man she ends up with to understand from Day One that this is not a woman you gamble with.

‎’Why?
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‎’Isn’t that hypocritical? Probably.

‎’But I have good reason.

‎’I trust the kind of man I am and will continue to be. I cannot say the same for the boys other parents are raising.

‎’When a badly raised, low-life boy meets my daughter, I want his first reaction to be an overwhelming sense of insecurity…

‎’…followed by an immediate retreat.
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‎’But my wife?

‎’Down-to-earth. Non-combative.
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‎’Homely. Sweet.
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‎’Smart. Smiley. SOFT.
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‎’But most of all…

‎’She considers me her lord on this earth.

‎’A man who loves her, covers her, provides for her, would literally go to war at my own expense for her and our kids.

‎’Someone will call it hypocrisy.

‎’I genuinely don’t care.

‎’Fathers and husbands are solving two completely different problems.

‎’As a husband, I know the kind of woman I want beside me.

‎’And as a father, I know the kind of woman I want to send into this world.

‎’Those are not the same job.

‎’And they don’t require the same strategy.

‎’With the way these new-age, TikTok mothers are raising their sons…

‎’This is my stance.’