If you want to lose your sanity and mental peace as a woman, accommodate a cheating husband- actress Rita Edochie tells women

Actress Rita Edochie has cautioned women against accommodating a cheating husband. I

In a post shared on her Instagram page, Edochie warned that accommodating a cheating husband will cause women to lose their sanity and mental peace.

Her post reads

‘’LOOK FOR A WAY AND STOP RITA EDOCHIE FROM TALKING MEEEEEE ?

 

IF A PROACTIVE MOVE IS NOT MADE TO END HIS MADNESS , HE WILL ONE DAY BRING THOSE LADIES , INTO YOUR HOME AND MAKE OUT WITH THEM RIGHT ON YOUR MATRIMONIAL BED . YOU WILL BE TOO HELPLESS TO DO ANYTHING AT THAT POINT BECAUSE YOU HAVE NO CHOICE .

 

LET ME SAY IT LOUDER FOR THOSE SITTING AT THE BACK TO HEAR , IF YOU WANT TO LOOSE YOUR SANITY AND YOUR MENTAL PEACE , ACCOMMODATE A CHEATING HUSBAND BECAUSE YOU KNOW YOU DON’T HAVE MEANS OF SURVIVAL OR YOU THINK YOU LOVE HIM AND HE WILL CHANGE

 

LOOK , SOME WOMEN ARE NOT STAYING BECAUSE THEY LOVE THE HUMILIATION . THEY ARE STAYING BECAUSE MARRIAGE , CHILDREN , FAMILY PRESSURE , FINANCIAL REALITIES , EMOTIONAL ATTACHMENT , AND SOCIETY CAN MAKE WALKING AWAY FAR MORE COMPLICATED THAN PEOPLE OUTSIDE THE MARRIAGE WILL EVER UNDERSTAND .

 

BUT LET US ALSO STOP PRETENDING THAT CHEATING IS A SMALL MISTAKE THAT A WOMAN MUST SWALLOW FOREVER JUST TO PROVE THAT SHE IS A “ GOOD WIFE .”

A MAN WHO KNOWS HIS WIFE WILL KEEP FORGIVING HIM CAN BECOME COMFORTABLE WITH DISRESPECT AND INFIDELITY .

NNE GBANYELU ONYE A FILM NOWWWW… KA O KILIE , KA OKWETA NA ONA EME .

 

TODAY IT IS CHINASA TOMORROW IT IS NKECHI NEXT THING , HE HAS TURNED INFIDELITY INTO A LIFESTYLE WHILE EXPECTING HIS WIFE TO KEEP SMILING , COOKING , PRAYING AND PLAYING THE ROLE OF THE PERFECT WOMAN .

NO NOWWWWWW !!!!

FORGIVENESS IS NOT PERMISSION .

PATIENCE IS NOT STUPIDITY .

SUBMISSION IS NOT SERVITUDE .

AND MARRIAGE IS NOT A LICENSE FOR ONE PERSON TO REPEATEDLY HUMILIATE THE OTHER .

ANYWAY , IF A WOMAN CHOOSES TO STAY , THAT IS HER DECISION . BUT LET NOBODY TURN HER DECISION INTO A PERMANENT CONTRACT TO ENDURE DISRESPECT .

 

AND TO THE MEN WHO THINK A WIFE WILL NEVER LEAVE BECAUSE OF CHILDREN , FAMILY OR SOCIETY , REMEMBER THIS :

A WOMAN CAN ENDURE FOR YEARS AND STILL WAKE UP ONE MORNING WITH ABSOLUTELY NOTHING LEFT TO GIVE .

 

THAT IS WHEN YOU WILL REALIZE THAT THE WOMAN YOU THOUGHT HAD NO CHOICE ACTUALLY HAD ONE .

SHE WAS ONLY GIVING YOU TIME .

I BELIEVE EVERYONE HAS A BREAKING POINT .

STOP TOLERATING A CHEATING HUSBAND EVEN IF HE IS YOUR BEACON OF FIN”