A Nigerian man, Ebikedoumene Bonny Jeff, has expressed grief and pain over the end of his marriage.
He announced the end of their marriage in a Facebook post on Saturday, August 8, 2026, their 5th wedding anniversary.
Jeff revealed that the marriage ended because his wife vowed not to forgive him after he “mistakenly followed another woman.”
He also revealed that she was still hurt by his past mistake; forcing her to abort three pregnancies during their early years.
Jeff said his love story with Yinlayefa started in their village in 2008. She gave birth to their daughter in 2011.
He described her as a wife material, a sweet, understanding, humble and caring woman.
Six months after the birth of their daughter, he entered the university.
He graduated in 2015 but remained jobless until 2019.
During that period, Yinlayefa got a job at federal university Otueke, paid their bills, supported him, went from one church to another, praying for his success.
He disclosed that after luck smiled on him and he got a job, they got married in 2021.
His wife became pregnant immediately after their wedding but the child d!ed.
The d3ath of their child and his infidelity marked the begining of crisis in the marriage.
According to him, his wife changed, withdrew love and affection and was no longer submissive
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He claimed she threatened to k!ll him and herself.
Jeff said they mutually agreed to go part ways, saying that separation is better than unhappy marriage.
He acknowledged the sacrifices she made for him and prayed that God rewards her, adding that she will always be his hero.
“Life is a mystery: my love story so far… In 2008 i and my wife (Yinlayefa started dating in d village, everything was moving perfect.
“The love, the affection, the understanding. Very humble, so caring. She was a woman every man wish to marry. She was a wife material, very Sweet woman to be with,” he wrote.
“So 2011 she gave me my priceless. After six month I left dem for school and she was taking care of my daughter in the village.
“After my year two second semester, she advised me not to come home again. That I should pay house at Yenagoa and I did so.
“We both moved to Yenagoa from the village and I always visited her every two weeks. We were full of life in the relationship.
“In 2015 I finished school & she got a job at federal university Otueke and she started taking care of the house (me & my priceless), paying all the bills, praying church to church for me to succeed in life with my credentials.
“In 2019, I finally got a job and we got married (August 8 2021). Immediately after the marriage she took in but unfortunately the child d!ed and everything in my marriage start getting unidentified issues.
What are the issues I caused in the marriage? (1) she took in up to three times while i was in school and I asked her to remove dem bco life was not fair to m (2) I mistakenly follow another woman to her notice & she vowed not to forgive me in life.
“I begged her to forgive m for years but she refused….so its leads to no love, no affection, no submission, no support system as a wife. Punishment everyday and night. Nothing was working, the silence battle, she wanted to take her owned life.
“She no longer love me. ”I will k!ll u & kill mysef” These are strong words coming out from my wife’s mouth in daily basis, etc in d house for years till 2026.
“Today supposed to be our 5th marriage anniversary but we choose separation for future life. Nobody should d!e because of marriage & both parties are happy.
“Marriage is not a do or d!e affair. I pray for you today. May God almighty always protect & guild you, reward you plenty for all d sacrifices you have sacrificed in my life.
“You ll always be my Hero in my life time. My woman of my youth is no more with m together but life goes on. Today I am just left with memories.
“In the year 2026 all my efforts to build a family was shattered!!!.”